tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post3686849269665149268..comments2023-09-05T08:45:22.572+01:00Comments on Bête de Jour: Enough to Put You Off Sex For LifeLa Bêtehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05934460455824439786noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-2472586230382909572010-05-29T02:48:40.024+01:002010-05-29T02:48:40.024+01:00Reading that stuff makes me ashamed to be human. Y...Reading that stuff makes me ashamed to be human. You're so much better than that. They're the ugly ones, the beasts, and you write beautifully. I believe in karma :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-16200250470783335292009-10-22T02:15:33.259+01:002009-10-22T02:15:33.259+01:00Not sure if this is a tall tale or real but as a m...Not sure if this is a tall tale or real but as a man of fairly severe ugliness I can sympathise with the daft decisions we men make when the little soldier is in charge.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-39279935193020046582009-06-21T02:21:56.075+01:002009-06-21T02:21:56.075+01:00Came across your blog and am now addicted. Oh and ...Came across your blog and am now addicted. Oh and I may be your furthest away reader too! I'm in Chile! (But from the UK originally).<br />Love your writing, you are truly inspirational but I am so so sorry to hear you went through this. How horrendous. Hoping that writing this down helped you somehow let go of the memory and allowed you to move on..<br /><br />Much love. xxxx<br /><br />p.s: we are all beautiful; ugliness does not exist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-60339883865546113672009-05-30T01:16:45.564+01:002009-05-30T01:16:45.564+01:00Okay, I know it's been over a year since you poste...Okay, I know it's been over a year since you posted this, but nonetheless, I'm compelled to say that just like the others, I just wanna give you a big ole snuggly-wuggly hug about now.<br /><br />Serious, major props for standing up for yourself, though. So many people would have gone home, locked the door and hid for the next six months, but you had the cojones--bruised as they undoubtedly were--to bring those bastards to account for their actions..also deftly substantiating my longtime ethos that karmic payback is a bitch (as am I...yeah, yeah, yeah).<br /><br />SO going to have to get your book now, btw. Bless Lisa for passing along the link. :)lilianavonkhttps://twitter.com/lilianavonknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-73377313003030794212008-11-14T18:51:00.000+00:002008-11-14T18:51:00.000+00:00I sat reading this with a few tears trickling down...I sat reading this with a few tears trickling down my cheeks, hoping because it was so horrible that you're simply an incredible storyteller and all this is a creation of your mind. If not, I'm glad you were able to move past it. <BR/><BR/>Best wishes for much happiness.Lady Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07732472647830543913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-27009802752930769002008-09-07T16:12:00.000+01:002008-09-07T16:12:00.000+01:00Oh my god!! What a horrendous experience... and yo...Oh my god!! What a horrendous experience... and you`re very brave to be able to write about it and thank God you got away from them safely and were able to call the police. There are so many souls full of decay walking the streets amongst the good.<BR/><BR/>tea<BR/>xoTeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07198693392569881087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-56238509048501074362008-09-01T23:32:00.000+01:002008-09-01T23:32:00.000+01:00Youre incredibly brave for sharing this...that is ...Youre incredibly brave for sharing this...that is so cruel. Even braver for telling the police. Hopefully it wont happen to someone else because you came forward.<BR/><BR/>Im a new reader by the way..Ive been scanning the archives.Mina McKayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01355682637244384472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-85062781775215299562008-06-01T09:57:00.000+01:002008-06-01T09:57:00.000+01:00That was absolutely terrifying. Kudos for not only...That was absolutely terrifying. Kudos for not only coming through it but being able to write with humour about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-45477330523637726482008-05-13T19:27:00.000+01:002008-05-13T19:27:00.000+01:00*speechless**speechless*surly girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16414631534757427023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-67620475090883898092008-05-08T11:57:00.000+01:002008-05-08T11:57:00.000+01:00Blimey. That is one ginormous headfuck. And a hell...Blimey. That is one ginormous headfuck. And a hell of a story. <BR/>But stil. Blimey. What a nightmare. And how well, and again honestly, told.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-21876552851361030122008-04-23T04:39:00.000+01:002008-04-23T04:39:00.000+01:00That is crazy! Whenever something crazy happens to...That is crazy! Whenever something crazy happens to me, someone always says "at least you got a good story out of it" and that is what I say to you.Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315282514541118552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-48949158976688522252008-03-23T22:21:00.000+00:002008-03-23T22:21:00.000+00:00Oh. My. God.What a complete mindfuck, among othe...Oh. My. God.<BR/><BR/>What a complete mindfuck, among other things. Jesus. I would never have been able to function in a relationship from then on. That would have messed me up far worse than I already am. Jesus.Vulgar Wizardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07754278305523433845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-444452683654012742008-03-23T13:14:00.000+00:002008-03-23T13:14:00.000+00:00Flamebait this may be, but I cry shenanigans. I do...Flamebait this may be, but I cry shenanigans. I do not for one second doubt that people that fucked up exist, or that they make bizarre DIY porn (rule 34). But why trick people into being involved, when a 3 line Craigslist ad would net you all the perverts you need for an entire string of movies? Very well written though...robhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133335085558536780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-40961973806381926272008-03-21T21:05:00.000+00:002008-03-21T21:05:00.000+00:00Jesus. I'm so sorry that you were sexually assault...Jesus. I'm so sorry that you were sexually assaulted by these scummy bastards and robbed and humiliated and abused. And I'm so damn pleased that you called the police and they were nicked.<BR/><BR/>And I'm very pleased about the astonishing and wonderful stuff.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04807921540492728422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-70456313467746530002008-03-20T02:35:00.000+00:002008-03-20T02:35:00.000+00:00Whew! That was a terrifying story. I'm so glad th...Whew! That was a terrifying story. I'm so glad that you're OK now, and that you will eventually fill us in on the "astonishing and wonderful" details soon.Geeky Tai-Taihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06790561084396960029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-70226003151163004502008-03-19T11:05:00.000+00:002008-03-19T11:05:00.000+00:00Blinkin' hell, that's quite a story. Well done on ...Blinkin' hell, that's quite a story. Well done on going to the police, that took some guts indeed.Roszshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12758301430228283389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-4559579126357065252008-03-16T00:08:00.000+00:002008-03-16T00:08:00.000+00:00I'm afraid I've never dared to take the plunge and...I'm afraid I've never dared to take the plunge and actually start a blog Tamara, and given the unremitting dullness of my day to day life I'm sure the world blesses my reticence!Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11603177124625711938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-88487654269355236412008-03-15T22:44:00.000+00:002008-03-15T22:44:00.000+00:00This is for blogger Michael. Do you have a blog o...This is for blogger Michael. Do you have a blog or what? I clicked on your name but couldn't find a link to your blog. Please advise.<BR/><BR/>Thanks,<BR/><BR/>TamaraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-37417528885907742932008-03-14T20:05:00.000+00:002008-03-14T20:05:00.000+00:00And I think I have it bad! I promise not to compla...And I think I have it bad! I promise not to complain about my rotten lot for the rest of the weekend.Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11603177124625711938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-61711055040164832972008-03-14T17:59:00.000+00:002008-03-14T17:59:00.000+00:00Dear Bete, I figured it was the filming without yo...Dear Bete,<BR/><BR/> I figured it was the filming without your consent aspect, that was the most invasive(hmmm...not sure is that's the proper word to describe the feeling), but it couldn't hurt to ask.<BR/><BR/>Plus, I totally forgot about the head butt; assault with deadly weapon, and mugging- that happened at the end. Oops! Sorry I guess my mind was still trying to wrap around the rest of the ordeal.<BR/><BR/>Sufficed to say, I would have been a bit miffed too ;-) Miffed, is obviously an understatement.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the reply and I hope you have a fantastic weekend<BR/><BR/>-SelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-87201788516608411682008-03-14T17:49:00.000+00:002008-03-14T17:49:00.000+00:00*stunned*ghastly yet somehow thrilling. I am pleas...*stunned*<BR/><BR/>ghastly yet somehow thrilling. I am pleased that there were no major after effects for you.Bittersweethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02336289793698943669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-40526684410536915722008-03-14T16:25:00.000+00:002008-03-14T16:25:00.000+00:00Thank you all for your comments. They really mean ...Thank you all for your comments. They really mean a lot.<BR/><BR/>Tamara – yes!<BR/><BR/>Anonymous arse – you’re funny. I’ll try not to get all fat and lazy again, although to be fair, I’m still quite fat.<BR/><BR/>Selena – what really bothered me was being filmed without my permission, then being headbutted and mugged. If they had been upfront about it, I might well have gone along with it. I don’t know. Maybe not. But maybe.<BR/><BR/>Vicky – I believe Tom went to prison, yes, as he was involved in lots of other stuff, including drug dealing and a little bit of battery. Sue wasn't imprisoned. I'm not sure she did anything illegal. <BR/><BR/>Puss – the money was compensation for a combination of the physical violence and the psychological damage – I kind of exaggerated the latter a bit when I was filling in the form. Actually, no I didn’t. I was genuinely frightened for quite along time afterwards, and I did move house because of it all.La Bêtehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05934460455824439786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-80263989763829472272008-03-14T11:11:00.000+00:002008-03-14T11:11:00.000+00:00What was the £880 for?PussWhat was the £880 for?<BR/><BR/>PussGlamourpusshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01450175254756849062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-25313014678803929152008-03-14T08:59:00.000+00:002008-03-14T08:59:00.000+00:00Well done for surviving that, and bloody well done...Well done for surviving that, and bloody well done for calling the police.Louchehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10954188299682856196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3971077270766122919.post-68455967819165890892008-03-13T22:42:00.000+00:002008-03-13T22:42:00.000+00:00You have to wonder what happened to those people t...You have to wonder what happened to those people to make them so vile. Is it wrong of me to hope it was something really appalling?<BR/><BR/>Did they go to prison in the end? I certainly bloody hope so.<BR/><BR/>On a happier note, congratulations on the something wonderful and I can't wait to hear about it, you big tease!<BR/><BR/>VickyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com